PearGuard has no server. Your family's data, every policy, every activity log, every time request, lives only on the parent and child devices you pair. When those devices need to share an update, they talk to each other directly, encrypted end to end. No company, including PeerLoom, can read your data because no company ever receives it.
In most apps, your phone talks to a central server and the server talks to other phones. The server reads everything. In a peer to peer app, two phones talk directly to each other. There is no server in the middle.
Think of email versus a handwritten letter. Email routes through several companies that could read it. A letter goes from your hand to your recipient's hand. PearGuard works more like the letter.
The obvious question: if there is no server, how does the child's phone know how to reach the parent's phone?
PearGuard uses a distributed hash table, or DHT, the same technology that powers BitTorrent. A DHT is a phone book that no one company owns. It is spread across thousands of participating devices around the world. When your paired devices come online, they each ask the DHT "has anyone seen my partner?" and the DHT helps them connect.
Crucially, the DHT only helps devices find each other. It never sees the data they exchange.
PearGuard stores the following locally on each paired device:
All of it is stored on the paired devices themselves. None of it is uploaded to PeerLoom or any third party.
Two things protect the data flowing between your paired devices:
Most parental control apps ask you to create an account and upload your child's activity to the company's servers. That model has real costs:
PearGuard trades the convenience of a cloud backend for privacy and independence. There is no account to hack, no server to leak, no subscription to cancel and no company to shut down.
Peer to peer is not magic. Honest tradeoffs:
These are deliberate choices. A cloud backend would solve all three at the cost of everything the peer to peer design protects.
You do not have to take our word for any of this. PearGuard is fully open source. The complete code, including the sync layer, the enforcement layer and the encryption code, is published at github.com/peerloomllc/pearguard.